...that I have done something to offend you, or, more likely, that has made you offended, not my absolute intention. You ask a series of questions via an email I don't much use and which I don't see for a couple of days. When I do see these questions, I answer, as reasonably as I can, and send the answers.
And, you discuss me without this feedback, without telling me I'm being criticised, and without having the grace to tell me that you are having this discussion
Now, what do you expect my answer after all this to be?
Quite right
Quote "Bugger the lot of you"
So, all my volunteer work, my time, my effort, my writing and attending meetings at awkward times and my making samples and making displays and giving stuff for fundraising and all and all and all, is dismissed, because YOU got something rather badly wrong and have not the grace to apologise, or even say that you've heard from me. Hmmm
Bugger the lot of you
Bugger the lot of you
Bugger the lot of you
Bugger the lot of you
And the high horse you are sitting on